Tag: identity

I have a friend, let’s call her Jane – She’s nice enough, I think she likes me. Somehow, she ends up telling the same old stories. Especially the ones about how someone upset or criticised …

My entire life, I have been curious about the patterns and systems which control human behaviour and relationships.  As a young woman, I observed patriarchy in action but could not understand why women were excluded …

Growing up, I picked up on a message that religion was very uncomfortable with the female body. It was almost as though as a woman, my body was seen as dangerous or corrupt and it …

Want to know what ONE THING that radically changed my life in the last decade? It wasn’t any course I took or financial investment I made or even anything overtly spiritual I did. It was …

How successful are you? Wildly? Enviably? Undeniably? How successful do you want to be? When my partner and I were dating, he tried to teach me to surf. As I was trying to paddle out, …

You like me don’t you!? I mean, you like, really like me. How do I know this? Because attraction is the first step in every single relationship.   Lately I have noticed SO MANY people getting …

In nature, death is an essential part of life. The cycle of new life depends on other organisms dying and making way. It happens every day and this rugged reality is what makes life so …

How much have you evolved as a person in the past 5 years? Do you feel more at home in your skin? Are you aware of your patterns and triggers? How often do you experience …

Have you ever wondered how you got your personality? When I was 13 I discovered the Myer Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), a popular personality tool. It felt like a huge relief and validation of who …

  I may be a 41 year old woman, but inside me, there is an 8 year old girl. This morning I was transported back in time. I see myself in my mind’s eye as …

POV: Spiritual women are more successful and satisfied in life, love and business. Agree or disagree? It probably depends on your definition of spirituality! A few years back, when I was deep in deconstruction, a …

Ever had a moment where you sat in your car, or bed, or the toilet and just cried because you felt so heavy with emotion?  In the moment, it feels all consuming. And that’s because …