How successful are you?
Wildly? Enviably? Undeniably?
How successful do you want to be?
When my partner and I were dating, he tried to teach me to surf. As I was trying to paddle out, I kept getting smashed by breakers. I would put my head down and dig deep, only to be pushed back into the thick of it. From out beyond me, he called out “just paddle harder”…
Sometimes that’s what it feels like in life. You’re out there trying your best and you see all the people ahead of you and it feels like you haven’t accomplished enough. Like you should be further along by now.
It’s called comparisonitis. And it robs us of our joy and stops us from taking action in the direction of our dreams.
We need to have a new conversation about what it means to be successful.
I like how Dr Maya Angelou defined success as “Liking yourself, liking what you do and liking how you do it.”
When you flip the script on success from external signposts and comparison to an internal measure of your own values and dreams, suddenly, the pressure goes down.
Is this you?
Have you been holding off working with me until you got more successful? Until you earned more? Weighed less? Until you were more successful?
You’re not alone! I have had 100s of women look me in the eyes and tell me as soon as they lose X kg, they can’t wait to treat themselves to a style session.
Believe it or not, I have been there too. I waited years before investing in a business coach because I didn’t think I was successful enough to engage one. The irony is, as soon as I started working with a coach, my business grew and grew.
If you feel powerless to change things, you will never take the action that will help you. So you actually have to take a leap of faith and decide that no matter what, you can’t lose.
🙋🏽♀️ If you are at a place in your life where nothing you own feels like it suits you anymore, things don’t fit well on your body, you’re a little embarrassed of what you’ve amassed in your wardrobe, and you’re not sure what to change, I have created something just for you. 👇🏼
In this 4 week, self paced course, you will learn the foundations of self styling. How to:
- Tap into your own inherent taste (everyone has style!)
- Create a simple system to get dressed (no more stress)
- Eliminate what doesn’t work (you will feel lighter)
- Create a shopping strategy (within your budget; &
- Pull together effortlessly stylish outfits (in minutes)
It’s time to put a bit of skin in the game in the name of freedom, feeling good and trying new things! You never know where it could lead… Click HERE to take your next step.